Incidents That Suggest Meghan Markle Has Difficulties To Fit Into The Royal Family
For a new bride, getting acquainted with her lover's family members is the most appropriate thing to do. However, there could be a few glitches here and there. This seems to be the plight of Meghan Markle, the Duchess of Sussex and wife to Prince Harry.
Although the former actress has tried to create a healthy ambiance for the relationship with her royal in-laws to thrive, things don't seem to be going her way. More than ever, Meghan is finding it challenging to fit into the royal family. You don't think so? Stay tuned as we take a ride through various happenings that just might make this speculation accurate!
WHAT HAPPENED AT THE ROYAL TROOPING?
There are numerous events which the royals grace with their presence. It is significant for the entire family to be at the royal ceremonies and functions. Reportedly, the ceremony that harnessed the royal families under one umbrella recently was the Trooping the Color. This occasion honors the efforts and achievements of the military, as well as the Commonwealth. It also signifies the official birthday of the Crown.
As expected, the Royal family all gathered, and all had their gaze fixated at a point in time, in the incredible display in the course of the event. Kate Middleton was observed to have been standing in the front line, while Meghan tailed on behind.
The Duchess of Sussex seemingly looked distracted as she concentrated on whispering something into the ears of her husband, Prince Harry. Something either caught her attention, or she was trying to make a joke, whichever the answer is, the Duchess thought it excusable to share with her beau.
This gesture was speculated to have been received with little or no interest from Prince Harry. Theorists who specialize in lip reading opined that the Prince must have thought that her actions were uncalled for and a bit of a distraction.
According to the details garnered by DailyMail, he had responded to her by telling her to turn and concentrate. The expert noted that Harry said:
"Yes, that's right... Turn around...Look."
THE BREWED CONTROVERSY AS A RESULT OF PRINCE HARRY'S REPLY
There have been several rumors corroborating the reason for the Prince's harsh response. One is that the national anthem came on, and he needed her to be quiet and pay attention. Another theory is that the Prince thought it necessary for some children to focus while the anthem was ongoing.
Some also claimed there was some frostiness between the couple as Meghan was not down with Harry's tone. As a result, fans are wondering if the Duke and Duchess are having problems.
A DISREGARD FOR ROYAL TRADITIONS
It is not sure what was so crucial that Meghan couldn't wait until after the anthem to speak, but many are not pleased with her disregard. Some experts have trolled the Duchess for her failure to adhere to royal standards. She was corrected more than once by the Prince and even felt upset as her eyes looked teary.
According to an array of experts, the concept of following the rules, while trying to fit in, is somewhat problematic for the former actress due to her racial background. Meghan is American, and the traditions of the British Royal family might seem strange to her. At the start of their relationship, the English media reacted to the differences in races and predicted that the Duchess would struggle to blend in.
EVEN THEIR INSTAGRAM PAGE DEPICTS HER STRUGGLE
Another reason to contemplate Meghan's fitting in is the way the Sussexes handle their Instagram account. The Sussex Royal account was created by the couple to connect with their fans, but according to a royal theorist, Melanie Bromley, their Instagram handle is too American.
The captions are mostly American words and don't look anything close to how a royal writes. Words employed are "diapers," "cribs." She said:
"They keep making mistakes on their Instagram."
Being an actress has its benefits, one can garner popularity and likeness from fans. In Meghan's case, however, there are no added benefits as she was tagged unfit for the Prince. Prince Charles considered actresses as a show-off. He had said to Harry:
"One steps out with actresses. One doesn't marry them."
Oops! It seems the actress's career is restraint in itself.
SHE'S BEEN BRANDED BY SOME FAMILY MEMBERS
While the actress may be trying to play her role of fitting in, some other family members do not recognize her efforts and have nicknamed her. The Times reports that a senior royal termed her as "degree wife." A student's degree is obtained in the space of three years in Britain, so the name stems from the fact that her union with the Prince is considered to hit rock bottom in three years. Ouch!
The Duchess has been dubbed a multiple numbers of names which shows the way the staffs and fans feel about her. Titles like "Me Gain," "Duchess difficult," indicating that she is high maintenance. Observations about how the Duchess lashes out at her workers have also been reported.
HARRY ISN'T THE SAME ANYMORE
The Duchess sure has her ways of dealing with things, and it may be unacceptable by others, but that's how she rolls. Sources claim that she has infected Harry with the way she handles her staffs. Larcombe, a royal journalist for The Sun, revealed to PageSix that the Prince dances to the tunes of his woman.
He has changed the way he behaves to those around him. The reporter noted that the Prince acts "grumpy and aloof." The Prince was regarded as "fantastic" by his staff but is now seen as "high maintenance" alongside his wife.
THE QUEEN EVEN BANNED HER FROM GETTING JEWELRY
While it appears the Queen will let Meghan have her way, it may not be all the time. Reportedly, the Queen firmly restricted the Duchess from picking a necklace of her choice. Journalist, Gavin Gary explained:
"There was this row where Meghan wanted this particular necklace, Harry said 'Meghan gets what Meghan wants,' and the Queen turned around and said 'oh, no, she doesn't. I decide what necklace is going to be worn out of the Royal Collection."
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A FRICTION IN THE RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN THE CAMBRIDGES AND THE SUSSEXES
Before Prince Harry and Meghan said their "I do's" the Prince's older brother, William warned him and asked if he was sure of his decision. It appears big brother didn't want him taking an action he'd regret.
Also, Meghan had her effect on sister-in-law, Kate Middleton. According to reports, Kate was spotted crying at Meghan's wedding because Meghan kept yelling about the perfection of her bridal train dresses. With these events, it might have been that both Prince William and Kate may have their reservations about Meghan.
Recently, however, the Sussexes' announcement to elude the Royal family foundation showed that there might be a problem in their relationship. After moving out from Kensington Palace, the idea of leaving the charity that was founded by both brothers spells a frostiness in their relationship.
Even though Meghan is doing all she can to blend in flawlessly with the royal family, she is indeed having a tough time. It seems all odds are against her! The Duchess may soon hit it right with fitting in - or not. But she sure is trying her best! There are several reasons why it will not be easy to pull, but we wish her all the best!
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